Today, I share my thoughts on slowing down so that you can speed up, go over the update from the prepper pantry, share a frugality tip and more.
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Tales from the Prepper Pantry
Transition to carnivore for the challenge is complete
Sunday “pile of meat”
Homegrown Cooking episode with Dawn this friday: Probably cooking a cow’s heart but who knows?
January Pantry Challenge
Weekly Shopping Report
None this week - we had snow
Frugality Tip From Margo
Some people have memberships that give them rewards. I tend to save them until we need them. I save points and redeem for gift cards for birthday and Christmas gifts.
We have a car rental membership that is a work perk so we do not have to pay for it. After so many days you get free rentals. We had a situation come up over the Christmas break that required a pick up truck. We used a free days rental and didn't have to pay a crazy Holiday price for a rental truck. So by saving those free days, we saved even more money on that much needed truck rental. So sometimes those pay for memberships are very worth their annual fees and this frugal lady has a few.
Happy savings y'all
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My 3 things 4 week challenge & another webinar tomorrow
5 Lambs were born so far - 3 today.
To Speed Up, First You Must Slow Down
Last year was the year of hone and life really tossed some tests my direction in that regard. Many tests were new opportunities which is so tempting to take on when they come. But saying yes to everything is a bad habit to have and a great one to decide to get rid of sooner rather than later. By April, I had started saying no to almost everything, especially things that involved travel off the homestead. I had realized that things on my homestead do not flourish as well when I am not here.
Not being present - and multiple ways that is a truth
Now is the year of enrich - meaning beyond the pocket book. I am asking myself, how am I enriching the world around me?
>Roadblock Busting
*The car
*Operation eyesore
*The paperwork monster
Show notes at 12pm today and the Monday mail has not gone out, the solar webinar is not launched, and that is ok. Previously I would have all these things not half-assed well in advance. But does that enrich the world around me?
To speed up, first you must slow down
Slow down and remove barriers
Slow down and assess priorities - like your true priorities of project, living, relationships, health
Slow down and test assumptions
Slow down and develop systems that work
Slow down and prioritize yourself
Why? If you don’t you will lose the things you do not build into your life.
When you half -ass things they begin to crack around the edged
Observations:
1. Always be defining complete as a little bit more
2. It’s ok to stop mid way and never come back, just take out the trash when you do
3. Communication is even more importantBe ready to go very fast once you get things dialed in - and then your preparations will be your strength!
So sometimes you need to take that half day to learn an AI tool, dial in the website, or defrag a paperwork monster instead of continually racing forward and building things anew.
Because building the life you choose, means you need to choose. And choosing one thing can mean walking away from not as good.
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I am joined by The Tactical Redneck, Tracy and Knighthawk to talk about the latest on the homestead: New births (oops), the snowmageddon that didn't, actual snow and more.
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Lambs born
Lamb died
The parts car sale and roadblocks
4 wheeler rebuild
Watercress is under water for the winter
Processing Rabbits this weekend
The Pantry Challenge
Planning what to grow
Rabbit Water cant go empty on any of them because of the cold
Finishing our raised beds - smaller gardens in 2025 to facilitate the move
Ducks are not laying eggs
Time to start chard and brassicas
Screening ashes
Thinking about compost
The pool house green house idea
Basecamp will be available to rent mid-February
Rams headed to the processor next week
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Join me for a chat with Andy McCann of Crossfit Garage about his journey into carnivore and how community has been the key to success in taking control of his health. We will also cover SOME but not ALL of our usual Monday Segments.
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Tales from the Prepper Pantry
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The world is changing…(AI)
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The Night Before Christmas was recorded at the Holler Homestead on the night before Christmas. Merry Christmas!
Tonight we have a reading of the Australian version of The Night Before Christmas by Aussieroo of the TSP Zello Group.
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The Night Before Christmas was recorded by the Cookeville Mastersingers in 2017 at Wattenbarger Auditorium. Merry Christmas!
Tonight we have a reading of the Pagan version of The Night Before Christmas by Mia of the LFTN Community.
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Tonight we have a reading of the Cajun version of The Night Before Christmas by The Ellender Family - listeners of LFTN.
Join us every day at 5pm for a reading of a different version of the poem, "The Night Before Christmas."
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Join us for the another version of The Night Before Christmas for the Redneck version, read by The Tactical Redneck.
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Tonight we have a reading of the Scottish version of The Night Before Christmas by Jaggy Little Thistle of the TSP Zello Group.
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Join me for a group discussion with members of our community and beyond about building the life you choose, current events, building a durable life, community development, business, getting started, health and more.
Each Tuesday, we welcome a different guest to tell their story, as well as take your questions live.
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Today, we have the first in our Night Before Christmas series, beginning with Leos: The Intellectual Night Beofre Christmas.
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Today we talk about changing the one person entirely in your control: You. I will also reveal my word of the year for 2025, and discuss our usual Monday segments.
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So as to yesterday's podcast. I have a family member that doesn't respect anyone's boundaries. They instigate the uncomfortable conversations just to cause tension. They bring up horrible things that have happened to you and rub them in your face and laugh about it. I cut this person out of my life for 5+ years. I was so much happier and healthier mentally. Me not having this person in my life caused family tension that was constantly thrown at me. This person is my mother. Two years ago my mother's husband got very sick, I chose to go see her and him right before he passed away.When I opened that door, the rest of my family got off my back. I currently have a "relationship" with my mother, but the more I give the more she wants. She acted somewhat normal for about a year and now she is back to her constant digging and trying to start shit. I have to ignore her comments and change the subject regularly.
Pretty much my whole family dynamic is toxic. I have a few more crazy Ian's hanging from the tree.
Deflecting and subject changing is a skill, but it's also exhausting. Stepping away to breath is also important. Limiting time spent is a requirement for sanity. And honestly a couple of beers is one way I stay calm at family functions. For now I am choosing to put myself in this situation in moderation. I hate it and have begun to dread it again, but it is a choice I have made to keep the peace between other family members.
My best recommendation is to cut the toxic people out of your life no matter who they are, and don't let them back in because they won't change. Because you are worth so much more than being someone's doormat whoever they are to you.
End of year Schedule
Tuesday Live with Becky Cook and Toolman Tim Cook, 9:30am tomorrow
Friday Homestead Happenings, 2pm Friday
Two Week Break
Tales from the Prepper Pantry
Weekly Shopping Report from Joe
Our most recent shopping trip was on Thursday; Sonia was out of cream cheese, so we went early.
We went first into Dollar Tree. Stock levels looked good. I could definitely see signs of rotation with some new products in the drinks area, and depletion (but not yet exhaustion) of others.
We did not go into Home Depot, but the online price of a 2x4x8 is still $3.85.
Aldi was last. Stock levels didn't look notably different from our usual Friday visits. My preferred variety of chocolate (70% cacao) was back in stock, but there wasn't much of it. Staple prices were: bread (20 oz. white): $1.39; eggs: $3.96; whole milk: $2.87 (-); heavy cream: $5.39; OJ: $3.69; butter: $3.49 (-); bacon: $3.99; potatoes: $3.69; sugar: $2.69; flour: $1.79; and 80% lean ground beef: $3.99 (-). They had cantaloupes this week.
I'm not sure about the untainted regular gasoline. A Weigels that we don't normally visit last had it at $3.49/gallon, which is a 20c decrease, but I don't recall what my usual station(s) were showing. Being retired, my need for gasoline is dramatically reduced.
Frugality Tip
Today is a short and sweet simple tip. Whenever we are out shopping or whatnot I pack a small cooler with drinks and a reusable ice block. I also keep an extra insulated tumbler full of water in the car at all times. Stopping to grab a drink adds up quickly, especially with someone that drinks soda.
So stop yourself from grabbing that convenience store overpriced drink and just pack a small cooler.
Happy saving y'all.
~Margo
Operation Independence
Nothing to report other than some advice: Dont overspend for Christmas - enjoy it but dont over spend
Main topic of the Show: Renew Yourself, Renew Your World
Build the life you choose on your terms
>>Fear of the drones
WHY START NOW AND NOT NEXT YEAR
Music stories/german language stories
CHRISTMAS MEMORIES
WOTY
RENEW - Choice - Bigger impact
What I was looking for in a word. Build on the fundamentals and grow, eliminate roadblocks that hold me back, develop better fundamental habits, money
Roadblock
Prosper
Craft
Build
Renew
Neuaufladen
>>>>THE WORD<<<<
To improve or enhance the quality, value, or substance of something. For example:
Adding nutrients to soil enriches it for better plant growth.
Introducing diverse experiences can enrich someone's life.
Providing additional details or creativity can enrich a story or idea.
It’s about making something better, fuller, or more meaningful.
What is your word of the year? Comment here or shoot me an email
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Today is Tactical’s last day on the show for 2024 – well live on the show anyway. He will read the Redneck Night Before Christmas in about a week.
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Rabbit Tractor - On the Christmas Break To Do List
Almost a record month for Holler Roast Coffee!!
Great American Preparedness Tour Reminder
Foraging Jerusalem Artichokes for Christmas Dinner
Found Tamahawk Steaks – we'll also get some cut
A Tale of my swiss chard, the wind, and a cold night when I was not here
Planning spring seedlings in the next few weeks
Does anyone have a fun chicken idea for thighs?
Wood stove dries clothing the best
Presetting 3 paddocks so T can leave for 4 days
Raised bed is about ready for garlic
Need to source cover that has active local biology in it for both raised beds
Incoming cow
Took down locust trees for posts
Heating with wood
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Join me for a group discussion with members of our community and beyond about building the life you choose, current events, building a durable life, community development, business, getting started, health and more.
Each Tuesday, we welcome a different guest to tell their story, as well as take your questions live.
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Today we talk about setting boundaries and how it is a kindness to do this sooner rather than later. Just in time for holiday gatherings. We will also cover our usual Monday segments.
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Livestream Schedule
Shifted to afternoons this week because of Gift Coffee Orders
Tuesday, 2pm with Ready Riflemen
Thursday, 6pm, The Great American Preparedness Tour Live
Friday, 2pm, Homestead Happenings with the Tactical Redneck
Tales from the Prepper Pantry
Frugality Tip
I have a favorite pair of headphones I use, mostly in the morning when someone else is still sleeping. They are the over the ear kind, not buds. I picked them up to use and the coating on them was peeling, and when I put on my ears it was itchy. I'm not the one to throw them out and buy a new pair. Also I'm not a crochet kinda girl (yet), but there's a crochet solution as well. I cut off the top few inches of an old sock (which I keep as rags , so had a some) Turned it inside out, rolled it down in half and put them over the headphones. And honestly the sound improved as well.
So get crafty to get more use out of the things you have
Main topic of the Show: Setting Boundaries Is KindnessSome weeks, I am not sure what would be the best fit for an LFTN Podcast but today, I had a nice chat with Jenni and she pointed out that lots of people struggle at the holidays with feelings of guilt because they are obligated to see family. Family of the kind that make them uncomfortable or are darn right abusive.
So today, we are going to talk about boundaries, setting boundaries, and why it is a kindness.
Story 1: The Friend or Employee Who Makes Small Mistakes on a Paid Project, John Willis wanting a different set up at SRF.
How to do this kindly:
So in general, being clear and setting reasonable boundaries can be very hard because hard conversations need to be had. There are some common ways to make these conversations reasonable.
Scenario
A Hard question for you - what are you doing to invite problems with your boundaries?
I don’t know who needs to hear this but it is ok to set boundaries with family. You dont have to go to the thing. You dont have to stay at the thing. You dont have to participate in the white elephant if you cant afford it or just dont want to. You dont have to have the drink. And the same goes for staying – you can just say Im headed home now. Ir “Im leaving. But a caution - I avoid saying “Ive got to go” to get out of a place where people pushed past my boundaries. I dont want them to think I left because of a conflicting obligation.
Forgiveness and boundaries.
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This is a re-uploaded mp3 file for the Tuesday Coffee Chat because there was an issue where the other file cut off after 30 seconds.
Today, we talk about the polar plunge in the Holler, Christmas busy season, shoring up the livestock to do well through winter, and more
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Hard to work outside because the cold came on suddenly.
Heat battery worked for one day – now we need a heater
Goat fencing
Chickens are gone
Feed staging
Preparing to be gone – location of sheep
Augmenting with creep to give sheep a boost because of the sudden change in temperature
Chestnut’s sweater
Garlic still not in – need the bed finished
Don’t low and slow a round roast - it gets dry
AP didnt freeze even though I didnt winterize the wicking beds
Chard is still producing under plastic
Duck eggs are slow
How do you like the rabbit waterers?
Time to breed the rabbits again
Rabbit tractor is still not done and I am the bottle neck
Checking the microclimate near the post for the last of the fall herbs
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Today, we have our annual brainstorm on gifts we can make from the home or homestead. If things are tight, or even if they aren’t, handmade gifts with lots of love and thought are awesome.
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Livestream Schedule
First Tuesday Coffee Chat, 9:30am Tomorrow
Friday Homestead Happenings, 9:30am
Tales from the Prepper Pantry
Weekly Shopping Report from Joe
We took our usual trip on Friday, deciding to risk possible Black Friday traffic, but it wasn't too bad. As we approached Dollar Tree, we could see that the China-mart lot was packed, but it did not extend as far as the Dollar Tree parking area.
Next we split, Sonia going into Hobby Lobby and I into Lowe's. Both were very busy, but she said she had little wait. Although we did not go into Home Depot, the online price of a 2x4x8 is still $3.85.
Aldi was next. Wet cat food has returned, so I got a couple of 12-can boxes. Eggs are no longer marked limit 2. There was very little of even the type of chocolate I normally get, not just the variety I prefer; the shelf area was vacant, although still marked for it. Staple prices were: bread (20 oz. white): $1.39; eggs: $3.96 (+); whole milk: $3.03; heavy cream: $5.39; OJ: $3.69 (+); butter: $3.99; bacon: $3.99; potatoes: $3.69 (+); sugar: $2.69; flour: $1.79; and 80% lean ground beef: $3.99 (-). They also had no cantaloupes.
A gallon of untainted regular gasoline remains at $3.599.
Frugality Tip
When you have a gathering and you put things out for drinks like sliced lemons, limes and oranges there are usually leftovers. What I do is put them in the freezer and when I'm going to make tea I'll take out a slice or two in the morning for a hot cup of tea in the afternoon or evening. Alternatively I'll freeze them in ice cube trays and use in iced tea in warmer weather.
So save the citrus and enjoy it later
Operation Independence
Setting a schedule for classes to be hosted at the Holler Homestead next year. Cheese, for example.
Main topic of the Show: Handmade Homestead Gift Ideas
MeWe reminder
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Post Thanksgiving Homestead Happenings. Enjoy!
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Getting ready for the BIG DAY this week?? Amy Dingmann and I talked a bunch about recipe ideas and other country girl things. I think you'll love listening while you get ready for your fun day!
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Today I talk about the word of the year, how HONE is going for me, and how to find YOUR word for next year. I also cover all our usual Monday segments.
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9:30am Friday, Homestead Happenings with the Tactical Redneck
Tales from the Prepper Pantry
Weekly Shopping Report from Joe
We made our usual Friday trip this week.
I'm still getting energy drinks at Dollar Tree, so that was first; only a few mind you, as I don't consume nearly as much caffeine now that I am retired. They seemed pretty busy, with two checkout lines open instead of the usual one.
Aldi was next and last. They had some wet cat food this week, so we grabbed a case (24 cans). Eggs are still marked limit 2. There were a couple of price drops. Staple prices were: bread (20 oz. white): $1.39; eggs: $2.97 (+); whole milk: $3.03; heavy cream: $5.39; OJ: $3.45; butter: $3.99; bacon: $3.99; potatoes: $3.29; sugar: $2.69 (-); flour: $1.79 (-); and 80% lean ground beef: $4.29.
I did check the online price of a 2x4x8 at Home Depot, and it is still $3.85.
A gallon of untainted regular gasoline remains at $3.599.
Frugality Tip
Operation Independence
Lamb for sale: https://www.livingfreeintennessee.com/product/whole-or-half-lamb-deposit/
Main topic of the Show: Word of th year
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