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Mar 14, 2025

Join me for a group discussion with John Willis of Special Operations Equipment and Jack Spirko of The Survival Podcast.

Featured Event: The Self Reliance Festival, SelfRelianceFestival.com

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Living Free in Tennessee

NicoleSauce.com

HollerRoast.com 

Main content of the show

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

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Feb 25, 2025

 

Today, Joshua Hale shares his journey from a programmed life in the matrix to moving to a homestead, then building value by tapping into the opportunities surrounding AI.

Sponsor 1: HollerRoast.com

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Use coupon code for $50 off: LiveFreeTN

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>>Use coupon code Sauce for 15% off Joshua's courses

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Make it a great week

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

Advisory Board

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Feb 21, 2025

 

Today is an interview show with Sue Zoldak from The Zoldak Agency all about creating your life to be the way you want it to be.

Featured Event: SelfRelianceFestival.com

Sponsor 1: HollerRoast.com

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Use coupon code for $50 off: LiveFreeTN

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Make it a great week

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

Advisory Board

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Feb 6, 2025

 

Join me for a group discussion with John Willis of Special Operations Equipment and Jack Spirko of The Survival Podcast.

Featured Event: The Self Reliance Festival, SelfRelianceFestival.com

Sponsors:

Show Resources

Special Operations Equipment

TheSurvivalPodcast.com

Living Free in Tennessee

NicoleSauce.com

HollerRoast.com 

Main content of the show

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

Resources

 

Feb 3, 2025

Today, I will share what a day looked like for me at the beginning of this podcast compared with a day now, after just about 1000 episodes. We will also cover all our usual segments.

LFTN Spring Workshop Tickets: https://www.livingfreeintennessee.com/product/2025-lftn-spring-workshop/

Featured Event: Seed Exchange and Potluck at the Holler Homestead, Feb 15 at 12pm-3pm https://www.facebook.com/share/1BN558PR4i/

Sponsor 1: AgoristTaxAdvice.com/lftn

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Tales from the Prepper Pantry

  • Holler Neighbor Potroast
  • Pantry Challenge Update
  • Seed Sorting Project
  • Working 1 hour at a time for the win

Weekly Shopping Report: None today

Frugality Tip: None today

Operation Independence

  • Relationships are important and not in order to get what you want. 
  • Basecamp is rented because of relationships
  • Pasture adjustments and new bnbs coming to the Holler

Main topic of the Show: 

May 20, 2016, Living Free in Tennessee had its first episode - https://traffic.libsyn.com/nicolesauce/NicoleSauce_Podcast_May_20_2016_-_52016_6.52_PM.mp3

…what started as a desperate need to release creative energy because my job was suffocating has become a community of doers, my source of inspiration, and something that is achieving what I tried for 14 years to do in the free market public policy realm.

And it all started with that one, poorly executed episode. A single decision. A ton of feedback from yall. And encouragement when things got tennous.

Episode 1000 is tomorrow and I am excited to share it with Jack Spirko fo the Survival Podcast and John Willis of Special Operations Equipment.

But today, I’d like to share with you what my life was like in May of 2016.

  • I was founder and president of a half million to  million dollar nonprofit with a mission to equip free market economists in the public policy world with better story telling skills and marketing departments (TALK ABOUT NICHE)
  • I had been homesteading for 9 years and was selling my extra vegetables and craft roasted coffee at the farmers market on saturdays
  • I flew for work so much that I had earned a companion pass on Southwest - look that up
  • I had 1 rental property in Nashville
  • I was deeply unhappy, finding myself in a role where my time was not my own, my primary job was to raise money so that I could pay people to train other people who were not as good of trainers as I was. I was also HR manager, and operations vp, and cfo in function which meant …. Paperwork. Lots and lots of paperwork.
  • After a trip, you could not get me out of the soil if you tried
  • I drank too much

A typical day on the homestead started early with some work outside and a cup of coffee. I would then transition into computer work and meetings, frantically tossing in a load of laundry or pulling something out of the freezer for dinner as I went. If there was a crisis, I was able to flew, but then would be looking at a late night of catch up for work. There were no days off. Not ever. The role I was in required that I be constantly available to respond to emails and text messages. It was so bad then when I started turning off my phone from 7-9pm on Mondays, one of the people who interacted with me actually had the gall to explain that because she was on the west coast and her day was not yet done, it was unreasonable for me to not be available from 7-9pm. And she was supported in this from the people who were responsible for about half to ¾ of my budget.

The segment operation independence? That stemmed from this situation. Because my area of Focus from my personal life strategic plan was to “Have enough local, ongoing revenue to support my life.” It has been adjusted to regenerative ongoing revenue nine years later, but you get the point. I was solving for being too dependent on one source of income so that I could NOT say no even though I was running my own organization.

I became soured on the whole nonprofit world as well as the public policy one because I saw the inherent flaw in trying to fix the system from within the system and over the next few years became convinced that the only way for freedom to grow was through individual action. Starting with myself.

In 2017 - I broke out of the system. A typical day was to work for the nonprofit, unpaid so that the people there could use me for creating value so that they could continue it on. They failed at that. A sign the nonprofit should never have existed really.

The day:
1) Work frenetically on the Center Hill Sun

2) Sell a few coffee orders

3) Weekly podcast

4) More time for homesteading

5) Contract work for corporate facilitations

>>>>Tell the rest of the story

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

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Jan 25, 2025

Join me for a group discussion with members of our community and beyond about building the life you choose, current events, building a durable life, community development, business, getting started, health and more. 

Each Tuesday, we welcome a different guest to tell their story, as well as take your questions live. 

Featured Event: LFTN Spring Workshop, LivingFreeinTennessee.com

Sponsors:

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AbovePhone.com

HackMyHomestead.com

Living Free in Tennessee

NicoleSauce.com

HollerRoast.com 

Main content of the show

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

Resources

 

Jan 16, 2025

Break Out of the Systems, Choose Freedom and Build a Better World Together

Once a month on our Tuesday Coffee With Nicole show, we go unplugged and today is that day. Join me for a conversation about the US Healthcare system and its impact on freedom

Featured Event: Save the Date for The Self Reliance Festival: SelfRelianceFestival.com

Sponsors:

Show Resources

AbovePhone.com

Living Free in Tennessee

NicoleSauce.com

HollerRoast.com 

Main content of the show

What are my options for health insurance?

This is the question I got most often when people are looking to transition out of a live on the job conveyer belt to working for themselves.

Indeed, one of the biggest reasons give to me by a more left leaning friend of mine for WHY we needed Obamacare was health insurance. Note that I do not refer to this as healthcare and that is with reason. He pointed out that, as an aspiring entrepreneur you already are facing a hard road ahead, but if you get sick you could lose everything and health insurance is so expensive.

I remember ending that conversation pointing out that he and I wanted the same thing, affordable health care so that sick people can get what they need to get better. We just wanted it in a different way.

Then another friend told me about her experience being in a car crash in great Britain which has a more socialized healthcare system than in the US. At the hostpital, they had no idea how to get paid for helping her so there was a fight for every step in her care until she finally figured out how to charter a flight out of that country and back home for care. She wanted to just pay since she did not qualify for care there (and must not have had travel insurance) but they had no way to do that.

In the early aughts, I was workign for myself and carried one of those plans where you hold a high deductible and put up to something like 75% of you annual deductible into an HSA for when you need it. This meant I needed to pay case for care up to about $1000 a year (That was a high deductible 20 years ago yo) and I would talk with the office manager before getting seen to negotiate my fees for 25-40% less if I paid cash up front. Because they spent WAY less in resources getting paid when they did not need to bill insurance.

Then I needed a specialist - and that specialist did a bunch of tests without my permission, did not tell me what they were looking for and biopsied me in a way that has left a long-term disfiguration that was unnecessary. I was diagnosed with an autoimmune skin condition called lichen sclerosis in my 20s and they had no idea how to treat it. When I went to negotiate the bill, the office manager had no idea what to charge me at time of service because their billing system was so complicated. She kept asking me to apply for government assistance so that they could bill me at those rates and when I tried to pay with cash, she had no idea what to do. Months later, there was a bill, I made a call and offered 60% of it cash, and they accepted that offer.

The struggle is real yall.

Problems with the US Healthcare System

  • Being sick and dying sucks and sometimes they have no idea what to do
  • Chronic illness is on the rise alongside obesity and there are more people needing more help
  • We already had a doctor to patient problem coming with the boomer retirement wave and we made it worse with all the drama of the pandemic
  • We have been programmed to equate health insurance with healthcare
  • Incentives in the system are toward increased beauracracy
  • Codes and billing have made it worse over time and this starts in medicaid
  • Health insurance as a tax deduction was incentivised in the 40s and messed with in the 50s leading to the transition from cash for care to the broken system we have now - and back then, being sick and dying still sucked
  • Culture shift: Health  care and medical support became an elite system that cut out alternative healing, health coaching, and prevention and focused on first cures, then management

One thing that has made US progress happen faster than other places: Rich Sick People

What does this mean for freedom? Like everything else your health and health care is your responsibilty. Are the insurance companies to blame? Yes but so are the nonprofit hospitals, the doctors who allowed biling to be taken from them, managed health care systems, the IRS, etc. It is not a single villian and that makes it hard to beat.

Erosion of dental

Erosion of veterinary

Hope:

Cash Clinics

Concierge Care

Growing body of knowledge on nutrition, lifestyle choices and in the impact of big food on our bodies

Functional medicine

Integrated Manual Therapy

PMAs 

Drs and Nurses doing their best from inside the system to help people get care

But this impacts your freedom in a big way doesnt it?

The only way to fix this one is to invest your time, money and energy in an alternative and become the solution – and yet if there is a fencepost through your leg, you are going to end up in THE SYSTEM right now so you want to be ready for that.

Health Shares

Relationships and Kindness

Obamacare plans and employer insurance

Private Insurance

But we need to keep our eye on the long term and, help build it, and be ready to jump when the jumpin is good.

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

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Jan 13, 2025



Today, I share my thoughts on slowing down so that you can speed up, go over the update from the prepper pantry, share a frugality tip and more.

Resources

Featured Event: Solar Webinar with Shawn Mills, January 19, 3pm

Tales from the Prepper Pantry

  • Transition to carnivore for the challenge is complete

  • Sunday “pile of meat”

  • Homegrown Cooking episode with Dawn this friday: Probably cooking a cow’s heart but who knows?

  • January Pantry Challenge

Weekly Shopping Report

None this week - we had snow

Frugality Tip From Margo

Some people have memberships that give them rewards. I tend to save them until we need them. I save points and redeem for gift cards for birthday and Christmas gifts. 

 We have a car rental membership that is a work perk so we do not have to pay for it. After so many days you get free rentals. We had a situation come up over the Christmas break that required a pick up truck. We used a free days rental and didn't have to pay a crazy Holiday price for a rental truck. So by saving those free days, we saved even more money on that much needed truck rental. So sometimes those pay for memberships are very worth their annual fees and this frugal lady has a few.

Happy savings y'all

Operation Independence

To Speed Up, First You Must Slow Down

Last year was the year of hone and life really tossed some tests my direction in that regard. Many tests were new opportunities which is so tempting to take on when they come. But saying yes to everything is a bad habit to have and a great one to decide to get rid of sooner rather than later. By April, I had started saying no to almost everything, especially things that involved travel off the homestead. I had realized that things on my homestead do not flourish as well when I am not here. 

 

Not being present - and multiple ways that is a truth

 

Now is the year of enrich - meaning beyond the pocket book. I am asking myself, how am I enriching the world around me?

>Roadblock Busting

*The car

*Operation eyesore

*The paperwork monster

Show notes at 12pm today and the Monday mail has not gone out, the solar webinar is not launched, and that is ok. Previously I would have all these things not half-assed well in advance. But does that enrich the world around me?

To speed up, first you must slow down

Slow down and remove barriers

Slow down and assess priorities - like your true priorities of project, living, relationships, health

Slow down and test assumptions

Slow down and develop systems that work

Slow down and prioritize yourself

Why? If you don’t you will lose the things you do not build into your life.

When you half -ass things they begin to crack around the edged

Observations:

1. Always be defining complete as a little bit more

2. It’s ok to stop mid way and never come back, just take out the trash when you do

3. Communication is even more importantBe ready to go very fast once you get things dialed in - and then your preparations will be your strength!

So sometimes you need to take that half day to learn an AI tool, dial in the website, or defrag a paperwork monster instead of continually racing forward and building things anew.

Because building the life you choose, means you need to choose. And choosing one thing  can mean walking away from not as good.

 

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

 

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Jan 7, 2025

Join me for a group discussion with John Willis of Special Operations Equipment and Jack Spirko of The Survival Podcast.

Featured Event: The Self Reliance Festival, SelfRelianceFestival.com

Sponsors:

Show Resources

Special Operations Equipment

TheSurvivalPodcast.com

Living Free in Tennessee

NicoleSauce.com

HollerRoast.com 

Main content of the show

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

Resources

 

Jan 6, 2025

Join me for a chat with Andy McCann of Crossfit Garage about his journey into carnivore and how community has been the key to success in taking control of his health. We will also cover SOME but not ALL of our usual Monday Segments.

Join the LFTN Community on Telegram: T.me/LFTNGroup

This show is brought to you by:

EMPShield.com (Coupon Code LFTN)

WealthSteadingPodcast.com 

Join the Carnivore Challenge (Yes this costs money): https://go.smartandsimplenutrition.com/carnivore-challenge

Connect with Andy: https://www.garagefitness.online/

Tales from the Prepper Pantry

  • ALL THE MEAT
  • Beef Breakfast Sausage Recipe: 5 tsp salt, 7.5 tsp sage (homegrown and dried and ground in the vitamix), 1.5 tsp nutmeg fresh ground, 2 tsp black pepper, 2 tsp garlic powder store bought, 1 tsp peppers or paprika of your choice

Operation Independence

The world is changing…(AI)

Here are responses to each of the questions to help guide your interview:

  1. **What is 60 Easy and why not just do 75 Hard?**
  2. **What are the Five Pillars of Health and Longevity, and why are they essential for building resilience in life?*
  3. **What inspired you to adopt the carnivore diet, and how has it impacted your health and fitness journey?**
  4. How are you Using AI?

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

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Dec 16, 2024

Today we talk about changing the one person entirely in your control: You. I will also reveal my word of the year for 2025, and discuss our usual Monday segments.

Featured event: Night Before Christmas Series starts TOMORROW! They will release at 5pm Central each day and lead up to the final reading on December 24.

Sponsor 1: DiscountMylarBags.com

Sponsor 2: AgoristTaxAdvice.com

Listener Feedback

So as to yesterday's podcast. I have a family member that doesn't respect anyone's boundaries. They instigate the uncomfortable conversations just to cause tension. They bring up horrible things that have happened to you and rub them in your face and laugh about it. I cut this person out of my life for 5+ years. I was so much happier and healthier mentally. Me not having this person in my life caused family tension that was constantly thrown at me. This person is my mother. Two years ago my mother's husband got very sick, I chose to go see her and him right before he passed away.When I opened that door, the rest of my family got off my back. I currently have a "relationship" with my mother, but the more I give the more she wants. She acted somewhat normal for about a year and now she is back to her constant digging and trying to start shit. I have to ignore her comments and change the subject regularly.

Pretty much my whole family dynamic is toxic. I have a few more crazy Ian's hanging from the tree.

Deflecting and subject changing is a skill, but it's also exhausting. Stepping away to breath is also important. Limiting time spent is a requirement for sanity. And honestly a couple of beers is one way I stay calm at family functions. For now I am choosing to put myself in this situation in moderation. I hate it and have begun to dread it again, but it is a choice I have made to keep the peace between other family members.  

My best recommendation is to cut the toxic people out of your life no matter who they are, and don't let them back in because they won't change. Because you are worth so much more than being someone's doormat whoever they are to you. 

End of year Schedule

Tuesday Live with Becky Cook and Toolman Tim Cook, 9:30am tomorrow

Friday Homestead Happenings, 2pm Friday

Two Week Break

Tales from the Prepper Pantry

  • Dried herbs and teas are jarred up (finally). Was stoked to see I had some Mexican Tarragon which tastes kinda like anise and is great in teas. We plan to grow more next year
  • Beef breakfast sausage experiment (4.5 pound batches)
  • The German goodies are gone from Aldi in our area - cheesecake - I waited to get a stollen until it was close to the party so I wasnt tempted because good choices start at the grocery store

Weekly Shopping Report from Joe

Our most recent shopping trip was on Thursday; Sonia was out of cream cheese, so we went early.

We went first into Dollar Tree.  Stock levels looked good.  I could definitely see signs of rotation with some new products in the drinks area, and depletion (but not yet exhaustion) of others.

We did not go into Home Depot, but the online price of a 2x4x8 is still $3.85.

Aldi was last.  Stock levels didn't look notably different from our usual Friday visits.  My preferred variety of chocolate (70% cacao) was back in stock, but there wasn't much of it.  Staple prices were: bread (20 oz. white): $1.39; eggs: $3.96; whole milk: $2.87 (-); heavy cream: $5.39; OJ: $3.69; butter: $3.49 (-); bacon: $3.99; potatoes: $3.69; sugar: $2.69; flour: $1.79; and 80% lean ground beef: $3.99 (-).  They had cantaloupes this week.

I'm not sure about the untainted regular gasoline.  A Weigels that we don't normally visit last had it at $3.49/gallon, which is a 20c decrease, but I don't recall what my usual station(s) were showing.  Being retired, my need for gasoline is dramatically reduced.

Frugality Tip

Today is a short and sweet simple tip. Whenever we are out shopping or whatnot I pack a small cooler with drinks and a reusable ice block. I also keep an extra insulated tumbler full of water in the car at all times. Stopping to grab a drink adds up quickly, especially with someone that drinks soda. 

So stop yourself from grabbing that convenience store overpriced drink and just pack a small cooler. 

Happy saving y'all.

~Margo

Operation Independence

Nothing to report other than some advice: Dont overspend for Christmas - enjoy it but dont over spend

Main topic of the Show: Renew Yourself, Renew Your World

Build the life you choose on your terms

  • Choice
  • What does LFTN want as a community next year? What will you build? Are you taking your time to renew yourself and your world

>>Fear of the drones

WHY START NOW AND NOT NEXT YEAR

Music stories/german language stories

  • Hobbies and clutter – old hotels your back - bass guitar
  • The ADHD home Story
  • You do what you make space for

CHRISTMAS MEMORIES

  • Stockings
  • Grandma’s Heart
  • Hallmark ornaments
  • Olden Times and Ancient Rhymes (Love and dreams)

WOTY

RENEW - Choice - Bigger impact

What I was looking for in a word. Build on the fundamentals and grow, eliminate roadblocks that hold me back, develop better fundamental habits, money

Roadblock

Prosper

Craft

Build

Renew

Neuaufladen

>>>>THE WORD<<<<

To improve or enhance the quality, value, or substance of something. For example:

Adding nutrients to soil enriches it for better plant growth.

Introducing diverse experiences can enrich someone's life.

Providing additional details or creativity can enrich a story or idea.

It’s about making something better, fuller, or more meaningful.

What is your word of the year? Comment here or shoot me an email

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

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Dec 9, 2024

Today we talk about setting boundaries and how it is a kindness to do this sooner rather than later. Just in time for holiday gatherings. We will also cover our usual Monday segments.

Featured Event: Mastersingers Christmas Concert, Dec 15, 3pm in Cookeville, TN

Sponsor 1: DiscountMylarBags.com

Sponsor 2: AgoristTaxAdvice.com

Livestream Schedule

Shifted to afternoons this week because of Gift Coffee Orders

Tuesday, 2pm with Ready Riflemen

Thursday, 6pm, The Great American Preparedness Tour Live

Friday, 2pm, Homestead Happenings with the Tactical Redneck

Tales from the Prepper Pantry

  • Half a cow arrived, the whole one will arrive sometime after Christmas
  • Cheated with fresh store veggies this week, because we can 😀
  • Still need to reorganize the freezers
  • Prepper pantry Redo has stalled and I may see if I can hire someone to help
  • Post road trip easy meal: Burgers, salads from the trip, and a dish from Knighthawk

Frugality Tip

I have a favorite pair of headphones I use, mostly in the morning when someone else is still sleeping. They are the over the ear kind, not buds. I picked them up to use and the coating on them was peeling, and when I put on my ears it was itchy. I'm not the one to throw them out and buy a new pair. Also I'm not a crochet kinda girl (yet), but there's a crochet solution as well. I cut off the top few inches of an old sock (which I keep as rags , so had a some) Turned it inside out, rolled it down in half and put them over the headphones. And honestly the sound improved as well. 

So get crafty to get more use out of the things you have 

Main topic of the Show: Setting Boundaries Is KindnessSome weeks, I am not sure what would be the best fit for an LFTN Podcast but today, I had a nice chat with Jenni and she pointed out that lots of people struggle at the holidays with feelings of guilt because they are obligated to see family. Family of the kind that make them uncomfortable or are darn right abusive.

So today, we are going to talk about boundaries, setting boundaries, and why it is a kindness.

Story 1: The Friend or Employee Who Makes Small Mistakes on a Paid Project, John Willis wanting a different set up at SRF.

How to do this kindly:

  • Do it with the correct mindset
  • Do it one on one
  • Be clear on the issue and on the solution to the issue. It is 100% unfair to point out something that needs to be different without clarity on what the steps to making it happen are - even if it is “reflect on the thing and let me know what you plan to do to change it.”
  • Why it is kind to say something sooner rather than later 
    • small correctable things can become big problems over time. Most people are willing to adjust if they know a reasonable adjustment is needed
  • What if the boundary was ignored? Then you know where you stand and can make future decisions sooner.

So in general, being clear and setting reasonable boundaries can be very hard because hard conversations need to be had. There are some common ways to make these conversations reasonable.

  1. Timing - heat of the moment issue and Upset Ian story
    1. Jenni’s way to walk away in the moment
    2. My way to walk away in the moment
  2. Following up, how to bring it up (Avoid the conversation shanghai TRAP)
  3. Clear, kind communication based on what you can control (you), what the issue is (How something they do makes you feel), what you want to see be different, Consequences. (Drunkenness Story). ALENON can be a good place to go for learning about setting boundaries that are hard to set
  4. Consistency and follow through - once it is set, stick to your boundary in a kind way

Scenario

  • Politics or religious pressure at a family Christmas gathering
  • Unwanted male attention at a party and “being polite”
  • Bad timing for a visit
  • Pull from audience

A Hard question for you - what are you doing to invite problems with your boundaries?

  • Bringing up politics or things you know will lead to a reaction (The global warming mug)
  • Swooping in to rescue people who then take advantage of you
  • Other ideas?

I don’t know who needs to hear this but it is ok to set boundaries with family. You dont have to go to the thing. You dont have to stay at the thing. You dont have to participate in the white elephant if you cant afford it or just dont want to. You dont have to have the drink. And the same goes for staying – you can just say Im headed home now. Ir “Im leaving. But a caution - I avoid saying “Ive got to go” to get out of a place where people pushed past my boundaries. I dont want them to think I left because of a conflicting obligation.

Forgiveness and boundaries.

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

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Dec 9, 2024

This is a re-uploaded mp3 file for the Tuesday Coffee Chat because there was an issue where the other file cut off after 30 seconds.

Dec 6, 2024

 

Join me for a group discussion with John Willis of Special Operations Equipment and Jack Spirko of The Survival Podcast.

Featured Event: The Self Reliance Festival, SelfRelianceFestival.com

Sponsors:

Show Resources

Special Operations Equipment

TheSurvivalPodcast.com

Living Free in Tennessee

NicoleSauce.com

HollerRoast.com 

Main content of the show

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

Resources

 

Nov 25, 2024

Today I talk about the word of the year, how HONE is going for me, and how to find YOUR word for next year. I also cover all our usual Monday segments.

Featured Event: Save the date for the LFTN Christmas Gathering on December 21, 12pm-3pm

Sponsor 1: DiscountMylarBags.com

Sponsor 2: HollerRoast.com

Livestream Schedule

9:30am Friday, Homestead Happenings with the Tactical Redneck

Tales from the Prepper Pantry

  • Slow Going on the repairs in there so all “stuff” is going in bins for the winter
  • Still harvesting herbs for drying because the fall has been very mild
  • Holiday Recipe Guide

Weekly Shopping Report from Joe

We made our usual Friday trip this week.

I'm still getting energy drinks at Dollar Tree, so that was first; only a few mind you, as I don't consume nearly as much caffeine now that I am retired.  They seemed pretty busy, with two checkout lines open instead of the usual one.

Aldi was next and last.  They had some wet cat food this week, so we grabbed a case (24 cans).  Eggs are still marked limit 2.  There were a couple of price drops.  Staple prices were: bread (20 oz. white): $1.39; eggs: $2.97 (+); whole milk: $3.03; heavy cream: $5.39; OJ: $3.45; butter: $3.99; bacon: $3.99; potatoes: $3.29; sugar: $2.69 (-); flour: $1.79 (-); and 80% lean ground beef: $4.29.

I did check the online price of a 2x4x8 at Home Depot, and it is still $3.85.

A gallon of untainted regular gasoline remains at $3.599.

Frugality Tip

Operation Independence

Lamb for sale: https://www.livingfreeintennessee.com/product/whole-or-half-lamb-deposit/

Main topic of the Show: Word of th year

  • What is is
  • Why do we do it? (Jenni, Nancy, etc)
    • The only person you can change is you
  • How does it fit with my3things
  • What do you do to find your word?
  • How has Hone gone for 2025
  • 2025 ideas, Jack’s Workshop and that word

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

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Resources

 

Nov 21, 2024

Join me for a group discussion with members of our community and beyond about building the life you choose, current events, building a durable life, community development, business, getting started, health and more. 

Each Tuesday, we welcome a different guest to tell their story, as well as take your questions live. 

Featured Event: #my3Things Webinar on January 9, 2024, https://www.livingfreeintennessee.com/2024/11/15/jan-9-my3things-webinar/

Sponsors:

 

Show Resources

CrossfitGarage.com

Living Free in Tennessee

NicoleSauce.com

HollerRoast.com 

 

Main content of the show

 

Make it a great week!

 

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

 

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Nov 11, 2024

Enjoy this talk with Kiri Torgler of Thunderhill Farms and Shawn Mills from Hack My Homestead!

Resources

HackMyHomestead.com

ThunderHillFarms.com

SOEParty.com

Nov 6, 2024

 

Join me for a group discussion with John Willis of Special Operations Equipment and Jack Spirko of The Survival Podcast.

Featured Event: The Self Reliance Festival, SelfRelianceFestival.com

Sponsors:

Show Resources

Special Operations Equipment

TheSurvivalPodcast.com

Living Free in Tennessee

NicoleSauce.com

HollerRoast.com 

Main content of the show

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

Resources

 

Oct 29, 2024

Today we have a catch up episode with some of the Unloose the Goose crowd.

Sponsors:
HollerRoast.com
EMPShield.com, Coupon Code LFTN

Show Resources
John Bush: https://livefreenow.podbean.com/
Jack Spirko: http://www.thesurvivalpodcast.com/
Nicole Sauce: https://www.livingfreeintennessee.com/
Professor CJ: https://profcj.org/

Main content of the show

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce.

Community
FreeSteading Group: https://freesteading.com/groups/living-free-in-tennessee/
Mewe Group: https://mewe.com/join/lftn
Telegram Group: https://t.me/LFTNGroup
Odysee: https://odysee.com/$/invite/@livingfree:b
Twitter: @nicolesauce
IG: @nicolesauce
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LivingFreeInTN
Resources
Membership Sign Up
Holler Roast Coffee
Harvest Right Affiliate Link

Oct 28, 2024

Join me today for a discussion of hopeless situations, as well as our usual Monday segments: Tales from the Prepper Pantry, Shopping Report, and Operation Independence.

Sponsor 1: Agorist Tax Advice
Sponsor 2: The Wealthsteading Podcast

Livestream Schedule
Tuesday, 9:30am Unloose The Goose Reunion Episode
Thursday, 2:30pm: Spicy Sisters
Friday, 9:30am: Homestead Happenings

Tales from the Prepper Pantry
¼ cow arrived
All the organs on the menu
Scheduling ram processing
Focusing in on replenishing systems: Gardens, improvements, herbs and teas
Recipe: Meatloaf Without the Binder

Weekly Shopping Report
Aldi was our only stop this week. They still have not restocked wet cat food, in fact I'm not even sure I saw the individual cups. They did have a normal amount of toilet paper. The chocolate I like was back in stock after being gone last week, but there wasn't much of it. Staple prices were: bread (20 oz. white): $1.39 (the tag was back); eggs: $2.15 (-); whole milk: $2.88; heavy cream: $5.39; OJ: $3.45; butter: $3.99; bacon: $3.99; potatoes: $3.59 (-); sugar: $2.99; flour: $2.35; and 80% lean ground beef: $4.49.

I did check the online price of a 2x4x8 at Home Depot, and it is still $3.85.

A gallon of untainted regular gasoline remains at $3.599.

Operation Independence
Ruined breakers and water in my outdoor electrical service is a good thing!

Main topic of the Show: Life is a choice

Hopeless Situations
Someone is dying and you must care for them and cant earn money while you do it
A troop of soldiers ravage through your village stealing all the food and winter has just started
You are fired with no severance and don't have any savings
A prominent group of people in your field are bad mouthing you and it is costing you business (Or any other gossip based problem)
You are hit by a subway train and when they extract you, you will die
You are stuck at a job because your family needs the health insurance and income, but you hate the job
Tidal wave Mud Slide and you are the only one to survive

You are your own first responder - by the time the govt gets there it is too late
You have to act and act on behalf of others because no one is coming to save you
What is your true goal
What is the current reality
What can you do right now to start moving toward your goal
How are you wasting time?
You cant change someone;s mind who has decided but you can wast your life trying to do so

Main point: there is always a choice. Pivot when you need to pivot. Live in the now and build the future - not in the past. Take back your time for it is your most precious resource.

Membership Plug

MeWe reminder

Make it a great week!

Song:
Life Is a Choice

Join me today for a discussion of hopeless situations, as well as our usual Monday segments: Tales from the Prepper Pantry, Shopping Report, and Operation Independence.

Sponsor 1: Agorist Tax Advice
Sponsor 2: Investable Wealth

Livestream Schedule
Tuesday, 9:30am Unloose The Goose Reunion Episode
Thursday, 2:30pm: Spicy Sisters
Friday, 9:30am: Homestead Happenings

Tales from the Prepper Pantry
¼ cow arrived
All the organs on the menu
Scheduling ram processing
Focusing in on replenishing systems: Gardens, improvements, herbs and teas
Recipe: Meatloaf Without the Binder

Weekly Shopping Report
Aldi was our only stop this week. They still have not restocked wet cat food, in fact I'm not even sure I saw the individual cups. They did have a normal amount of toilet paper. The chocolate I like was back in stock after being gone last week, but there wasn't much of it. Staple prices were: bread (20 oz. white): $1.39 (the tag was back); eggs: $2.15 (-); whole milk: $2.88; heavy cream: $5.39; OJ: $3.45; butter: $3.99; bacon: $3.99; potatoes: $3.59 (-); sugar: $2.99; flour: $2.35; and 80% lean ground beef: $4.49.

I did check the online price of a 2x4x8 at Home Depot, and it is still $3.85.

A gallon of untainted regular gasoline remains at $3.599.

Operation Independence
Ruined breakers and water in my outdoor electrical service is a good thing!

Main topic of the Show: Life is a choice

Hopeless Situations
Someone is dying and you must care for them and cant earn money while you do it
A troop of soldiers ravage through your village stealing all the food and winter has just started
You are fired with no severance and don't have any savings
A prominent group of people in your field are bad mouthing you and it is costing you business (Or any other gossip based problem)
You are hit by a subway train and when they extract you, you will die
You are stuck at a job because your family needs the health insurance and income, but you hate the job
Tidal wave Mud Slide and you are the only one to survive

You are your own first responder - by the time the govt gets there it is too late
You have to act and act on behalf of others because no one is coming to save you
What is your true goal
What is the current reality
What can you do right now to start moving toward your goal
How are you wasting time?
You cant change someone;s mind who has decided but you can wast your life trying to do so

Main point: there is always a choice. Pivot when you need to pivot. Live in the now and build the future - not in the past. Take back your time for it is your most precious resource.

Membership Plug

MeWe reminder

Make it a great week!

Song:

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce.

Community
Follow me on Nostr: npub1u2vu695j5wfnxsxpwpth2jnzwxx5fat7vc63eth07dez9arnrezsdeafsv
Mewe Group: https://mewe.com/join/lftn
Telegram Group: https://t.me/LFTNGroup
Odysee: https://odysee.com/$/invite/@livingfree:b
Resources
Membership Sign Up
Holler Roast Coffee
Harvest Right Affiliate Link

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce.

Community
Follow me on Nostr: npub1u2vu695j5wfnxsxpwpth2jnzwxx5fat7vc63eth07dez9arnrezsdeafsv
Mewe Group: https://mewe.com/join/lftn
Telegram Group: https://t.me/LFTNGroup
Odysee: https://odysee.com/$/invite/@livingfree:b
Resources
Membership Sign Up
Holler Roast Coffee
Harvest Right Affiliate Link

Oct 15, 2024

 

Join me for a discussion with members of our community and beyond about building the life you choose, current events, building a durable life, community development, business, getting started, health and more. 

Today we talk about the efforts that our network has done in East Tennessee to rebuild as well as what happens next with Jessica Hinton.

Each Tuesday, we welcome a different guest to tell their story, as well as take your questions live. 

Featured Event: Partnering With Trees On The Permaculture Homestead, nov 2

Sponsors:

Show Resources

At the end of this show, I play a song I wrote called The Flood. Read about it here.

Connect with Jessica

THE FORM for projects that are needing help

GrindstoneMinsitries.com

Living Free in Tennessee

NicoleSauce.com

HollerRoast.com 

Main content of the show

Get started with Nostr - Brian’s Video: https://youtu.be/UvSBPvYnNxM 

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

Resources

 

Oct 8, 2024

 

Join me for a group discussion with members of our community and beyond about building the life you choose, current events, building a durable life, community development, business, getting started, health and more. 

Each Tuesday, we welcome a different guest to tell their story, as well as take your questions live. 

Featured Event: The Self Reliance Festival: SelfRelianceFestival.com

Sponsors:

Show Resources

The Lots Project

Living Free in Tennessee

NicoleSauce.com

HollerRoast.com 

Main content of the show

Get started with Nostr - Brian’s Video: https://youtu.be/UvSBPvYnNxM 

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

Resources

 

Oct 4, 2024

 

Join me for a group discussion with John Willis of Special Operations Equipment and Jack Spirko of The Survival Podcast.

Featured Event: The Self Reliance Festival, SelfRelianceFestival.com

Sponsors:

Show Resources

Special Operations Equipment

TheSurvivalPodcast.com

Living Free in Tennessee

NicoleSauce.com

HollerRoast.com 

Main content of the show

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

Resources

 

Sep 30, 2024

Today, we have a previously recorded interview with Hakeem Anwar from Above Phone. He and his crew have been very helpful to me as I embark on creating a more digitally private world for myself while still communicating with yall on the open platforms like Youtube, Telegram, or Facebook.

Update about the LFTN Hurricane Helene Relief Project
Connect to help out: T.Me/LFTNFlood

Donations:
Through my podcast and NOT a non-profit: https://www.livingfreeintennessee.com/product/rebuild-roan-mountain/
Bear Independent’s 501(c)3: https://give-usa.keela.co/gsm-donation-form

Show Resources
AbovePhone.com: https://abovephone.com/?above=104
Use coupon code for $50 off: LiveFreeTN

Come see Hakeem at Self Reliance Festival!

Make it a great week

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce.

Community
Mewe Group: https://mewe.com/join/lftn
Telegram Group: https://t.me/LFTNGroup
Odysee: https://odysee.com/$/invite/@livingfree:b
Advisory Board
The Booze Whisperer
The Tactical Redneck
Chef Brett
Samantha the Savings Ninja
Resources
Membership Sign Up
Holler Roast Coffee
Harvest Right Affiliate Link

Sep 27, 2024

Join me for a group discussion with the Angry Prepper and Shawn Mills from Hack My Homestead about building the life you choose, current events, building a durable life, community development, business, getting started, health and more. 

Each Tuesday, we welcome a different guest to tell their story, as well as take your questions live. 

Featured Event: The Self Reliance Festival: SelfRelianceFestival.com

Sponsors:

  • KangenWaterCollective.com
  • HollerRoast.com

Show Resources

Connect with The Angry Prepper

HackMyHomestead.com

Living Free in Tennessee

NicoleSauce.com

HollerRoast.com 

Main content of the show

Make it a great week!

GUYS! Don’t forget about the cookbook, Cook With What You Have by Nicole Sauce and Mama Sauce. 

Community

Resources

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